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When I’m told something my mind visualize it. For instance, you say to me that you just stepped on a huge spider. Well,  my mind sees your foot stepping on a great big spider and its guts just oozing out from under your shoe. Its craziness for sure! 😄 I just want to know if I’m the only one who thinks like this. I know I’m not.

Have you ever laughed so hard at something you knew wasn’t very funny but could not stop? I love it when that happens don’t you? I can’t remember what not so funny thing I was laughing about at all!

They say laughter is the best medicine. Do you believe that to be true? I read an article some years back stating that a woman with end stage cancer refused to give up. She practiced a routine of regular laughter everyday. She would watch her favorite comedies or read funny things. She did things that made her laugh like sing a song out of tune. The article went into more detail and I can’t remember specifics but the jest is she did this laughter for a year and had a checkup. She was in remission. Yes, she did all the stuff like chemo and radiation but the extra was the laughter. She truly felt that her getting a regular dose of laughter help her cancer go into remission. Just the idea of it is wonderful. What do you think? Is laughter the best medicine?

Wouldn’t this world be a better place to live in if everywhere people got regular doses of things that make them laugh? I suppose there has to be some type of balance. Times still have to get serious and laughing seems wrong. But, i bet during those times after participating in regular laughter session we don’t look at things in a more mellow tone.

Live laugh and love 

 

 

I know, I know! Some of you are thinking she is crazy! That is correct, I am crazy. Now haven’t you ever had one of those days when you know you should not get out of your bed? Maybe a doctor ordered bed rest? Maybe you had the flu and mom says “to bed with you now!” Well, that’s the kind of day I have had.
Here is what I do to combat boredom while ordered to bed rest:

Read: have several books or magazines available. If you use a reader then make sure you have the charger. Lol

Movie stream: I am a Netflix fan so that is where I go. I hear great things about hulu also. Both have a free 30 day trail! Go stream.

Games: Now concentration may be an issue when healing so here are a few games that I play to get my mind active. Mahjong, Trivia crack, Brain games, Words with friends. There are so many to choose from. Read the reviews on the app and check the rating. This process alone will keep you busy. Lol

Now there are a few things to keep the boredom at bay. Some of the things you don’t do in my opinion are:

Social sites: these should only be used minimally I feel. Post status updates about your progress from time to time. Do not get into the sometimes drama of these sites. So minimal use of social media is a plus.

Get up and do anything! This is a hard one. Especially when you live alone. But, in these tines you should be resting call upon family and friends to help out. All you need to do is ask.

Watch the news. This often depresses people with all the bad stuff in this world today. Peace of mind and spirit is what you need right now. So no negative stuff while you heal.

Ok, who knows why I wrote this? Well, maybe someone is in bed and has his/her reader on and comes upon this. You never know…..lol!

Hello! Had to include all my greetings which is to me either wishing you a good day or good night. And afternoon greeting from me is saying “Whatsup” LOL

My day was boring but things are getting better for me health issues. Thank God 🙂 I live on the California coast. The north coast of California. Normally we don’t have humid days so when we get one or two of those days it has people hollering “Ugh it is so hot today!” And sweat just clamming up your skin. Yikes! Well today was one of those days here. It is just now starting to cool off!

Feeling better each day. More like myself again . I’m grateful to all you guys still hanging in here with me! My own blogosphere family! Wow, not that is a good feeling to be part of the blog craze that has empowered so many of us to do better, to see better, to love and live better. Yes, oddly enough that is how my blog and y’all have effected my life since the beginning days of December when I started this blog on a cell phone app! Wow, time flies truly it does.

I adore animals. I wished I lived in a zoo or wildlife preserve. Something to that effect. Maybe its something I will do when I grow up. Oh, wait, I am 47 when am I suppose to grow up!? LOL

I have night mares. I have had them for years and years. Not every night but most nights. I have been thinking about doing a crash course in dream interpretation. Anyone have any experience with dreamology? Just curious….

My mom is such an awesome human being and I wish the world could know her because she is unique and pure. She has came through many things that you would not believe. Since my return to CA from OK we have spent a ton of time together and she has rewarded me by telling me some of her deeper darker stuff. I guess I get my determination from her to not dwell in the past cause then you are bringing the past to the here and now. Pretty easy concept. Move forward and all will be as it should. I am a mama’s girl and proud of it!

Age? Is it really just a number? In some cases yes. We don’t want our child boy or girl at 15 to be hooked up with a 25,year old do we. Some women in the South do marry or hook up with an older man. Its kinda normal and accepted there. I don’t know why. Now, the reason I am asking is I have been asked out by a 25 yr old man! I said no of course! But, really I have kids older than him! Maybe I would think he was just a fluke but this is the 2nd younger man to ask me out. Are women really doing this? And are the young men really looking for old divorced and wrinkled women? I think I rock but my lord! LOL that senerio is just not for me. I hope I have not offended anyone because it is just me telling y’all my personal take on the age thing with me. It is funny! On the opposite spectrum I married a man 11 yes older than I was. It worked until it didn’t work anymore. I lived and I learned.

Ok all you very special people please be loving and kind to yourself and others. Dance when you can. Sing out of tune. Its ok just do it.!!!

Well, here is my feelings above for last week and moving into this week. Change has happened in a major way in my life. I became homeless. Please no sorries or pity type stuff. Not that I don’t appreciate the love from all of you. It is I feel I don’t deserve it. I blew my temper and it was not pretty on my beloved sister. I was feeling threatened and I reacted in fight back mode. Being abuse in the past makes me feel when I am accousted that I have to fight back or die. It saddens me that this all happened. She now says she has hate in her heart for me. I made a choice to react before thinking and just walking away. I did not act like the woman I am trying to be. With that all said, I have been doing a lot of soul search and praying for my grandkids and my children and their partners. I won’t devuldge to much of their issues but I can’t help them. For that I just pray. I gave all the negativity away. Just about an hour ago I finally felt peace. Here is the good thing that came out of all this……I was wondering if in two weeks I would have to go and sign up for the shelter. Feeling lost and down, my mom says, “check Craiglist” so I did. I am not kidding you the very first one in my price range I called it. Angie answered and we talked like old friends. She asked to meet me Saturday and I took the bus and met her and we talked and talked. I got the place without even a refrence! We liked eachother and we clicked perfectly. So, now I have a home to go to. Just got to find a couch to serf on from the 2nd to the 8th. See, mama lives in a retirement complex for disabled and elderly. They can only have company for two weeks. So, I consider this just another hurdle. I got this! Here is the bad part……I have no internet there! And, it will be a little while til  get it! I love you all and love my blog! I will be lost! SO, PLEASE STAY WITH ME? I WILL TRY AND COME ONLINE A FEW TIMES A WEEK EVEN IF I HAVE TO GO TO A CAFE’ TO SIP COFFEE AND GET FREE WIFI I WILL DO IT. I have a wonderful interview to post soon. Almost finish scheduling my A to Z. I am on letter U! I will also try and post some stuff to schedule drop while I am offline. Thanks for all the love and support!